Grace’s Story

The journey of Grace’s time with us begins at our last pre-natal class. Amy hadn’t felt Grace moving much that day. Through class she paid attention waiting to feel her solid foot make some contact. Class came and went and there was nothing. Since we were already at the hospital we headed up to the Neonatal Unit, our class nurse telling us we’d be out within 45 minutes and that way we’d sleep soundly. Up we went and a stress test ensued, her heartbeat was strong as always so we thought everything was okay but after 20 minutes she still wasn’t moving. An hour or so later on February 16th, 2016 at 11:41 our beautiful Grace Gabriella Manning made her grand entrance at 4lbs and 4oz, 8 weeks early. She was whisked away to the nursery before we could even see her. We knew it was best and she was being looked after by a great team but it was tough not to see her right away. Once Amy was in recovery Chris was allowed to go see her, she was beautiful and strong and he could already tell what a fighter she was. It had already been determined that she would be taken to Sick Kids and the team was already en route. The team arrived and got Grace all ready for transport while Chris was able to stay with her for a bit.  They then did the most wonderful thing, wheeling her into the recovery room before leaving so that mom could say her first hello. Not the way we envisioned it but Amy would take whatever she could and was so thankful for their thoughtfulness.
Grace arrived quickly and promptly at Sick Kids in the wee hours of the morning on February 17th where she was taken to the NICU. We would later meet one of the incredible Nurses at Sick Kids, Nurse Stephanie, who was there that first night when Grace was admitted. She was with her all night, holding her hand, telling her how much mommy and daddy loved her and protecting her when the tests and needles got to be too much. Grace had been having seizures throughout the night and was still on a breathing tube but she was stable and strong. Amy was beyond ecstatic when she was finally released from the hospital, she couldn’t wait to finally meet her little Grace. She can recall Chris pushing her up towards her incubator, mom’s hands shaking she was so excited to see her little girl. She will never forget the smile and the joy in her heart seeing Grace and getting to touch her, hold her hand and kiss her beautiful face. As soon as she touched her little fingers she instantly grabbed mom’s finger and squeezed so tight. Amy couldn’t believe such a little thing could have such an incredible grip but man, Grace was strong, in every sense of the word. We still couldn’t hold her but we could be by her side.
And then our world came crashing down, two and a half days after her arrival we sat down with Grace’s medical team at Sick Kids with no idea of how our world was about to be shaken. Grace had been progressing well since her arrival and things looked to be on the upswing, or so we thought. That Friday afternoon the doctors received back the results of her MRI and it wasn’t good. They showed that she had no brain function except for her basic stem functions, the most basic functions we have. It was something she wouldn’t survive, the brain is the one thing that can’t recover from trauma.Their medical opinion was to take her off all supports and hope that we would get to spend some time with her. We looked at the doctor through the blurriness of the tears pouring down our faces thinking maybe we had heard it wrong, but the look in the doctors eyes and the silent tears running down the nurses faces confirmed we had not. We were never prepared for those words, or for the outcome that lied ahead. We had only just met Grace, how could she be leaving so soon. The world came crashing down and our hearts were broken into a million pieces.
The next few hours were a blur.  Our families met us at the hospital and we got to hold Grace for the first time. Although Grace had passed her breathing test they couldn’t say with certainty that when they removed the breathing tube she would breath on her own. The incredible nursing staff had secured us the Family Suite which had a bed and a bunch of chairs so that we could all spend whatever time we were going to get together as a family. We all piled into the room Mom and Dad holding Grace tight, cuddling her, hoping we would make it through the night. We have never been so happy to see a sun come up or to see 6am as we were that Saturday morning. We had made it through the night and that meant Grace was going to give us some time, some precious, precious time.
Grace had made it through the night which meant more decisions, Nurse Practitioner Jennie and Nurse Stephanie sat down and compassionately walked us through the next steps. Amy had asked about taking Grace home as the reality of what was to come began to sink in. The thought of having to spend anymore of her precious days in a hospital and knowing that it would be the only place she lived in her short life was something we couldn’t stand.  This is when we were told about Emily’s House. Right away we knew it was where we were suppose to be; it gave us the space and the feeling of home, but with medical staff close by if we needed them, and for when the time came. While we waited for the paper work and administration side that needed to be tended to Nurse Stephanie suggested that maybe Grace would like to try chocolate or maybe go for a walk outside. We were both a little stunned:  we could do that?! Well, that just got the ball rolling and from there on the ideas of adventures we could share with Grace just kept rolling in.
Arriving at Emily’s House we were both a little nervous and hesitant. It was a new place, with new people. What would it be like? Would we be happy there? Would we feel like a family there? We walked through the doors and I knew we were home. We were greeted by warm friendly faces, staff oooing and awwwing over Grace, her little features, her baby smell.  For the first time, Amy got to feel like a mom. They made us a wonderful home cooked meal, a delight to all of our stomachs after days with minimal food. We were home and it felt great. Grace was happy and content and we will never forget what it felt at the end of the day to curl up with her and just cuddle her until the wee hours of the morning. It was the best feeling in the whole world. We were a family, making memories and filling our hearts with love.
Over the next five days we lived life to its fullest, pouring as many memories and as much love as we could into Grace’s life. The staff and volunteers at Emily’s House were incredible helping us to make so many amazing adventures happen. From a princess birthday party with friends and family, to watching the stars and moon. Playing with sparklers and watching Aladdin. Afternoon strolls through the park to a hockey night with daddy. Road trips, shopping and family meals. A beach day and being cuddled non-stop. In this world Grace only knew love.
And then it was time, just 8 days after making her debut into this world it was time for her to leave us. On Wednesday February 24th our sweet baby girl left us. Her wings were ready but our hearts were not.

Emily’s House

Emily’s House is a special place for kids and youth. A place of compassion, care, comfort, laughter, learning and play. Featuring a home-like, comforting environment, Emily’s House is dedicated to caring for children with complex needs while supporting their families. It is the first of its kind in Toronto and among 6 in Canada. Emily’s House brings together high quality, respite and palliative care with the warmth and comfort of a child-focused environment that allows children and their families to have a home away from home for respite, pain and symptom management and palliative care.

Emily’s House offers a third option for a care setting, when hospital and home are not desired or feasible. Hospitals are busy, sterile places, with little space for families to have privacy, and home may be limited in terms of medical support and much needed respite.

Endorsed and supported by Sick Kids Hospital, and serviced by expert physicians, trained nursing staff, dedicated play, art and spiritual care therapists as well as a dedicated management staff and board of directors, Emily’s House brings health care and heart together for the benefit of critically sick children and their families.

Whether a life is measured in days, weeks, months or even years, children living with a life-limiting diagnosis deserve the opportunity to learn, play, develop and grow….to just be kids. Emily’s House helps families make memories out of minutes and miracles out of days.

“What truly makes Emily’s House the place it is is its unbelievably caring, giving and loving staff and volunteers. Each and every person associated with Emily’s House looked after and loved us like we were part of their family. They laughed and cried with us and they will forever be a part of our family and hold a big spot in our hearts”
~ Amy Manning

If you would like to make a donation to Emily’s House click here


2018 Sponsors

Hockey for Grace would not be possible without the generous support of our community sponsors. These companies step up and have made a financial contribution to not only make this tournament and charity social possible but to assist in helping us reach our goal of raising $20,000 for Emily’s House. We are so absolutely grateful for their generosity and support. Please show them some love by giving them a “like” on Facebook (click their logo to head to their page) checking out their website and using the services they provide.

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Register Now: Hockey For Grace


Thanks so much for committing your team/self for Hockey for Grace 2018. With the help of great people like yourself we know this years tournament is going to be more exciting and more successful than ever before. Please submit your registration for both team and solo players below.

Please note that all team slots are now filled and only individual spots in our recreational division are available. If you would like to be put on the wait list and to receive notice next year email us at


  • Team Fee: $650/team (early bird) $700/team (after March 1st)
  • Individual Fee: $65/individual (early bird) $70/individual (after March 1st)

What does my registration fee get me?

  • Spot in the tournament
  • Welcome Package & Bag
  • Ticket to the post-tournament Charity Social at the Optimist Club
  • Drink ticket redeemable at the Charity Social
  • Raffle Ticket

Early bird entries will receive an additional 2 raffle tickets as well as a ticket for the booze basket

Before you register please be aware of the following:

  • To play in the Co-Ed division, you will have to have to have one female skater(not goalie) on the ice at all times.
  • Filling out this form will hold a spot for your team for 7 days (as long as there is room available in the division.) Once 60% of the team fee is received for your team, your spot will be confirmed.  All outstanding fees must be in by March 24, 2018 or we reserve the right to make the spot available again.
  • Payment can be made via Cash, Cheque, Credit Card or e-transfer.  E-transfers can be made to
  • If you have multiple people who wish to play, but not enough for a whole team, you can each register as an individual.  There is a place at the bottom to request to be on another person’s team.  We will do our best to accommodate all requests.
  • We recommend teams of 10.  This will give you 3 lines and a goaltender.  You can have as many as you like, but we believe 10 is the ideal number.  Teams of individuals created by us will be capped at 10.

Hockey For Grace 2018 Registration


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Welcome Market Brewing Co.

Hockey for Grace would not be possible without the generous support of incredible community sponsors. One thing we have always strived for with our sponsors is to team up with like-minded companies who both share our values and operate as local small businesses. We have been very fortunate to obtain and develop some incredible partnerships over the past year and today we`re proud to announce a big one. We would like to give a big welcome to Market Brewing Co.

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